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Proud Weirdo (poem)

"weird" is finally a compliment to me now

a femme person wearing an alien mask
a femme person wearing an alien mask
 

“You’re s o w e i r d.”


What was once an iron fist-punch to the gut

to the shy kid who felt far too much

is now a cause for celebration,

conjuring the childlike elation

that I thought was lost to

the litany of literary and literal jabs

of my rocky past.


Spectral, eldritch, elysian,

peculiar, eccentric, alien…


all snugly housed in each hemisphere of my mind,

conjoined tendrils seaming them together,

no longer hidden, forbidden, or to be rewritten.


Hell, I’m smitten with strange

and my magickal ways

and not acting my age.

I’ve grown into a changeling adult;

I’ve always been fae (or "faerei" as my best friend likes to say). 🧚


So, call me Weird. Please.

Anything but n o r m a l…



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Dee
3 days ago

I'm smitten with strange too (love that line). It feels amazing and so freeing to embrace yourself as you are.

Just sharing some thoughts that came up for me when reading your poem:

It's so funny because I remember being extremely depressed when kids used to say I looked like a man. I was probably about 15 and I was so terrified that I didn't meet the right criteria of "womanhood". Now I am a 36 year old proudly non-binary person who would take it as a compliment to be seen as anything other than the AFAB identity that was pushed on me. The freedom I take from loving and celebrating my gender identity extends on to all other weird…

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Rei
3 days ago
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Thank you, Dee 😊! I'm so glad this resonates with you, and I totally relate 💛💛💛. Growing up, I'd be called "androgynous" and I even had people ask "as you sure you're not a dude" due to my smaller chest size and often "tomboy" style. I would take such offense and like you, worried I didn't meet the right "woman" criteria. Now, I too would take such things as huge compliments. Interestingly enough, that doesn't happen as much now. I wasn't womanly enough growing up and I'm apparently not "queer enough" to some folks now. Doesn't really matter to me as much anymore! I celebrate our weird and queer parts... queerd (as in weird + queer combined 😆). Thanks for…

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